Changing a single note's size in a chord
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Individual note heads in a chord can be modified with the \tweak command inside a chord, by altering the font-size property.
Inside the chord (within the brackets < >), before the note to be altered, place the \tweak command, followed by font-size and define the proper size like #-2 (a tiny note head).
\version "2.24.0"
\relative c' {
<\tweak font-size #+2 c e g c
\tweak font-size #-2 e>1
^\markup { A tiny e }_\markup { A big c }
}